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Erotica and me


Warning: mature content. Those under 18 need to discontinue reading.

Lol. I can't believe I titled this post the way I did. I'm just coming right out there and telling you what it's going to be about. This post is about Erotica and Me.

Men aren't ashamed they watch porn. Women need to stop being ashamed for reading erotica. I used to read a LOT of erotica in college. I had a long distance boyfriend and the libido of a college kid. Me and erotica were friends. We still are friends. And I don't feel bad. My husband is great. He's great in bed. Sorry mom and dad and other people who don't need to know that. You can stop reading now.

Anyways: Erotica and I are still friends. Why? Because there is nothing wrong with reading erotica. If you see someone reading a dirty book on a plane or on a train: high five the hell out of them. They are comfortable enough with themselves to be seen in public holding a book that says words like : Dick, cock, cunt, pussy, and other words considered too vulgar for regular fiction except when used as a slur.  To all the women who proudly read 50 shades of gray in public: Good for you! I proudly read a 3some book on a plane while my husband sat next to me. I got some strange looks mind you, but for goodness sakes it's a book. I'm not fingering myself in public. I'm reading.

Whatever kind of erotica you like, buy a book that features it.
 If you want to read it at home where no one else can see you: cool.
 If you want to read it on a plane: cool.
You do you. But please stop being embarrassed for having needs.

Read that erotica. I know I will be.

Happy Day.

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